a little vulnerability goes a long way

As an intimacy expert aka sex coach I find that one of the most vexing challenges is for folks to speak up and share what they need and want. The dilemma seems to be that many haven’t either experimented enough or haven’t asked themselves what feels right for them in terms of touch. It’s not a simple process and yet it’s also not rocket science. First, I recommend slowing down, breathing and experimenting with yourself and then sharing what you’ve learned with your partner – the best lovers are ones that have been taught. Most people share the same fears and uncertainties so don’t let them stop  you. We all want to be understood, loved and cherished. vulnerability