Who knows?

I’ll start by saying I don’t like to speculate on why people do what they do. However, in regards to the recent shooting in California by the 22-year-old virgin, I am chiming in after all. The reason is that I am a surrogate partner therapist treating a number of “late virgins,” and what I offer has helped many of them …

Ignorance prevails where compassion ought to be

This recent article in the New York Times reveals the lack of knowledge and understanding about the efficacy and necessity of surrogate partner work. What a shame that in France of all places they still don’t get it. This past winter I was interviewed for French Elle magazine on the disabled and the use surrogate therapy to enable them to …

a little vulnerability goes a long way

As an intimacy expert aka sex coach I find that one of the most vexing challenges is for folks to speak up and share what they need and want. The dilemma seems to be that many haven’t either experimented enough or haven’t asked themselves what feels right for them in terms of touch. It’s not a simple process and yet …

Sex surrogate therapy works!

I  realize that what most of my adult life has been about in terms of work in the world is helping people realize that they have the resources they need to build warm and trusting relationships with one another. Working as a sex surrogate therapist opened my eyes to  how powerful the combination of teaching and coaching/guiding can be with all things intimate …